so many thing i want to say but i have to keep biting my tongue. my husband is a much bigger and better person than i am because he has this amazing capacity to forgive. maybe i am just too protective but my first instinct is not forgiveness. it's also not understanding.

but i will say this: the lack of class, integrity and just plain and simple good in people becomes shocking as you become older. i hope so much that my son has better judgement when it comes to friends than his parents have.